When you walk through the doors of the school does it feel warm and inviting? The young childhood years should be focused on your child developing a strong community. The feeling of warmth, connectedness, and attentiveness should permeate throughout the hallways and classrooms. Many people’s perception is bigger and brighter is better. However, children would rather have warm, caring people to share their stories with, share their excitement, and be given time to just reflect with someone.
Do the administrators, teachers, and support staff understand child development and know when to assist a child and when to observe? Are they willing to teach the child skills necessary to become independent and master skills successfully? When my children are away at school, it is important for me to know that they are building a relationship with their teachers and feel safe and secure in their environment.
What does the classroom environment look like? The children should be drawn to the materials on the shelves and learn while they are at “play.” Is the classroom neat and orderly, and does it look like a warm and inviting place that even you want to get down on the floor and try something new? Some children become withdrawn when there is too much going on within the classroom. From wall displays to loud noise, massive amounts of manipulatives, and toys, some spaces can be overstimulating for children. A peaceful classroom with a nice steady hum of children’s voices and teachers’ conversations can allow each child the ability to develop concentration and focus on their creativity and work.
Are the children looked at as individuals who are growing, developing, and constructing themselves at the pace they are meant to do? One cannot rush development but provide the opportunities, experiences, and materials to allow each child to work and grow to their fullest potential.
As the saying goes, monkey see monkey do! If an expectation is for children not to shout across the classroom, then the teachers too must follow their own rule. The teachers are the guides in the young children’s lives and setting the example and expectation of grace and courtesy, caring for the materials, and respecting others’ opinions should be played out by each member of the classroom community.